Many, if not most, of us want what we don't really need.
If we knew what we really needed we probably wouldn't want it :)
Many don't really know what they need, so do we give them what they think they want or what they really need?
Many need depth of relationship with those who are more mature, because life change usually revolves around relationship
They may say they want depth of information (deep Bible study) when what they are really seeking, if they knew how to define it, would be depth of relationship with Christ which requires depth of relationship with other believers.
